This thing we do
You can call it domestic discipline, rules, structure, or getting your needs met. This is a non-judgmental forum for adults who use some form of external discipline in their lives.
It is currently Fri Jan 27, 2012 3:58 pm
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Introductions
Tell us a little bit about yourself. - 258 Topics
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Last post by LadyShriver1
Sun Jan 22, 2012 6:58 pm
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Introductions
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FAQ
What is this board about? What are the guidelines? This is also where I'll post general announcements about things that are going on with the board. - 53 Topics
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Last post by JigsawAnalogy
Thu Jan 12, 2012 11:53 pm
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Daily Life and Off Topic
For all those things not specifically on topic, but which you feel like sharing.
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Last post by artistFormerlyAltbob
Fri Jan 27, 2012 2:30 pm
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Daily Life and Off Topic
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- This thing we do
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What it is that we do
Whether we call it "domestic discipline" or "rules" or "structure" or just "getting our needs met." This is a spot for those meta discussions about what it is that we do. - 86 Topics
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Last post by ~*KiKi*~
Thu Jan 26, 2012 11:55 pm
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What it is that we do
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Creating Structure
Perhaps your household works without a structure. Go you. The rest of us mortals need to figure out how this thing works. This is a spot for talking about how we create the structure of our various domestic arrangements. - 89 Topics
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Last post by Natinthecorner
Mon Jan 16, 2012 5:59 pm
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Creating Structure
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WWJD? (What would (Nanny) Jo Do?)
SpankoNanny, WE NEED YOUR HELP!
Here's a section for those questions about discipline. In this case, we're *all* able to stand in for SpankoNanny, and we are all free to ask questions. Got a problem in your household? Check in to see what our good friend (but our firm, strict, caring friend) SpankoNanny has to say. - 27 Topics
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Last post by lane3010
Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:07 am
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WWJD? (What would (Nanny) Jo Do?)
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Implements
Which do you love? Which do you hate? Which are effective? Which are delightfully noisy? Which have the utility of a wet noodle? - 62 Topics
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Last post by ~*KiKi*~
Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:09 pm
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Implements
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Punishments
What punishments have worked for you? Which made you (or your partner) feel frustrated or resentful?
This is the meta forum, focused more on general talk. - 101 Topics
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Last post by JigsawAnalogy
Fri Jan 27, 2012 12:11 am
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Punishments
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Confessions of Consequences
Yeah. Sometimes, you just want to tell other people about the punishment you got (or gave). Come here for commiseration, or as a way to process through your experiences. - 173 Topics
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Last post by Eayore
Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:16 pm
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Confessions of Consequences
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What about the neighbors?
Or housemates, or children, or any of those other people who share our space, but who are not involved in our disciplinary arrangements. - 16 Topics
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Last post by Saraj
Thu Dec 01, 2011 7:27 pm
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What about the neighbors?
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Mental health
In a perfect world, discipline would cure all ills. But in the real world, not so much. How do we deal with those diagnoses that spanking just can't make go away. (You know, depression, ADD, DID/MPD. The thing a therapist would put on your medical record to convince the insurance company that they have to pay up, if you had a therapist and health insurance.) - 36 Topics
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Last post by DaddysLucy
Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:21 pm
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Mental health
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Physical health
How do we balance consistency and rules with the fact that our bodies might not always comply? What do we do when physical problems make spanking a no-go? How do we explain the marks to our doctors? - 8 Topics
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Last post by pinecone
Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:46 pm
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Physical health
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What we have survived
Some of us had perfect happy bunny rainbow ice cream childhoods. Some of us had childhoods that were reasonably okay. And some of us were abused. Much as I'd like to pretend it has nothing to do with my life now, I know that those old issues can rear their ugly heads. Not to mention coping with the judgmental tone a lot of the "healing" literature takes about S/M, let alone the disciplinary stuff. - 7 Topics
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Last post by W-Jigsaw'sBoss
Sun Mar 27, 2011 12:26 am
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What we have survived
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How can you call yourself a...
feminist? Christian? Pagan? Athiest? Loving partner? Adult?...
if you let someone discipline you?
Well, I know that we *are* all of those things, or whatever else we define ourselves to be. But sometimes, we just need to check in with other people, and be reminded that we're not doing something bad or wrong. - 10 Topics
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Last post by artistFormerlyAltbob
Wed Nov 23, 2011 3:45 am
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How can you call yourself a...
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