This thing we do

You can call it domestic discipline, rules, structure, or getting your needs met. This is a non-judgmental forum for adults who use some form of external discipline in their lives.

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Cane purchased
by altbob » Wed Oct 10, 2012 2:26 am in Implements

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by artlover
Thu Nov 29, 2012 10:31 pm
How do bottoms accept being bottoms?
1, 2, 3 by altbob » Mon Jun 20, 2011 5:18 pm in FAQ 2

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by splorange
Wed Feb 06, 2013 8:22 pm
Nicknames for implements
by altbob » Wed Apr 18, 2012 9:09 am in Implements

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by wicked nurse
Thu Jan 24, 2013 1:53 pm
Prozac
by blackbird » Wed Jul 25, 2012 1:30 am in Mental health

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by wicked nurse
Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:44 pm
Blog
by blackbird » Thu Sep 27, 2012 4:10 am in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by blackbird
Tue Oct 02, 2012 9:05 am
Can 24/5work?
1, 2 by blackbird » Thu Sep 27, 2012 3:47 am in Creating Structure

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by artlover
Thu Feb 13, 2014 1:55 am
TTWD spilling over into the real world...
by blackbird » Tue Jun 25, 2013 3:27 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by Eayore
Sat Jul 13, 2013 5:36 pm
Plea to self - don't get the hairbrush today!
by blackbird » Sun Apr 08, 2012 2:11 am in Confessions of Consequences

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by LadyShriver1
Tue Sep 24, 2013 2:46 pm
Definition of sadism
by blackbird » Sat Mar 16, 2013 2:42 pm in What it is that we do

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by Eayore
Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:24 pm
What would you choose?
by blackbird » Mon Feb 11, 2013 9:22 am in Punishments

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by blackbird
Tue Feb 12, 2013 8:56 am
Saying hello!
1, 2, 3 by blackbird » Thu Oct 17, 2013 4:21 am in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by blackbird
Thu Apr 03, 2014 6:12 pm
How do you keep it going?
by bottomhusband » Wed Aug 29, 2012 3:56 pm in Creating Structure

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by artlover
Tue Sep 18, 2012 4:57 pm
Punishment that works for me
by bustod » Sun Oct 27, 2013 9:57 pm in Punishments

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by Eayore
Tue Nov 12, 2013 8:32 pm
US Among Leading Nations in Spanking
by donodaflor » Fri Feb 24, 2012 10:11 pm in What we have survived

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by splorange
Sat Jan 12, 2013 6:40 am
Twitter
by Eayore » Sun Aug 04, 2013 6:33 am in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by LadyShriver1
Mon Aug 12, 2013 2:16 pm
Experimental Forum
by Homebody » Wed Nov 14, 2012 5:10 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by JigsawAnalogy
Wed Nov 14, 2012 9:21 pm
Stress-relief Spankings or something similar...
1, 2, 3 by Homebody » Mon Oct 01, 2012 12:07 pm in What it is that we do

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by Eayore
Tue Feb 05, 2013 9:37 pm
Which implement hurts for the longest time?
by Ice-cream » Mon Aug 19, 2013 8:15 pm in Implements

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by artlover
Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:16 am
Christmas
by jessewj » Sat Nov 03, 2012 11:12 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by jessewj
Thu Nov 29, 2012 11:55 pm
So, who's been naughty and who's been nice?
by JigsawAnalogy » Sat Dec 22, 2012 11:03 am in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by Eayore
Wed Jan 02, 2013 7:45 pm
Spanko article in the NY Times!
by JigsawAnalogy » Sun Nov 11, 2012 1:35 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by Eayore
Mon Nov 26, 2012 8:51 pm
Sorry for the long absence!
by JigsawAnalogy » Mon Sep 24, 2012 1:05 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by LadyShriver1
Fri Mar 07, 2014 4:00 pm
Who would suspect?
by LadyShriver1 » Fri Sep 14, 2012 4:43 pm in What it is that we do

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by LadyShriver1
Thu Sep 27, 2012 2:53 pm
Threats of spanking: help or hindrance?
1, 2 by LadyShriver1 » Fri May 10, 2013 2:59 pm in What it is that we do

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by LadyShriver1
Sun Jul 07, 2013 11:00 pm
Happy New Year!
by LadyShriver1 » Sun Jan 06, 2013 8:05 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by Eayore
Mon Jan 07, 2013 7:12 pm
Eating my feelings...
1, 2 by LadyShriver1 » Wed Sep 12, 2012 2:56 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by JigsawAnalogy
Mon Oct 01, 2012 11:11 am
Needed that spanking!
by LadyShriver1 » Mon Aug 12, 2013 2:34 pm in Creating Structure

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by artlover
Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:11 am
Icky phrases I find erotic
by LadyShriver1 » Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:04 pm in What it is that we do

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by artlover
Fri Dec 27, 2013 8:41 pm
DD Boot Camp
1, 2, 3 by LadyShriver1 » Sun Jul 01, 2012 6:32 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by LadyShriver1
Tue Oct 23, 2012 3:09 pm
Kitchen Implements
1, 2 by LadyShriver1 » Sun Sep 04, 2011 1:42 pm in Implements

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by LadyShriver1
Tue Nov 19, 2013 4:51 pm
TTWD worked and freaked me out
by LadyShriver1 » Wed Feb 12, 2014 2:59 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by Eayore
Sat Mar 22, 2014 7:44 pm
Shopping Tomorrow!!!
1, 2, 3, 4, 5 by Meg » Thu May 26, 2011 4:37 pm in Implements

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by Lady Governess
Thu Jan 24, 2013 5:13 am
Clearing up a Misconception I Had
1, 2 by Meg » Sat Jul 16, 2011 8:40 am in What it is that we do

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by Eayore
Sun Oct 20, 2013 5:04 pm
Hand Strapping/caning
by Mentorjim » Sun Jun 24, 2012 8:54 pm in Punishments

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by blackbird
Tue Dec 11, 2012 9:29 am
intense spanking recently
1, 2 by mickey » Tue Nov 20, 2012 9:27 pm in Punishments

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by wicked nurse
Mon Jan 28, 2013 1:41 am
So how did you guys meet?
by mickey » Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:23 pm in FAQ 2

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by LadyShriver1
Sun Jan 06, 2013 8:20 pm
So I'll be getting a mouth soaping
by mickey » Thu Dec 06, 2012 10:18 pm in Punishments

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by mickey
Sun Dec 16, 2012 9:23 pm
Why do I feel so much better after punishment?
by mickey » Mon Dec 10, 2012 10:46 pm in What it is that we do

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by blackbird
Tue Dec 11, 2012 8:32 am
hurricane sandy?
by muchinspired » Tue Oct 30, 2012 1:19 am in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by jessewj
Thu Nov 01, 2012 11:33 pm
Thoughts on suicide and self harm. (Not bad, I promise!)
by muchinspired » Fri Nov 30, 2012 2:35 am in Mental health

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by wicked nurse
Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:28 pm
your thoughts on bdsm pride at... gay pride?
by muchinspired » Wed Aug 15, 2012 2:52 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by JigsawAnalogy
Mon Oct 01, 2012 11:29 am
i need help disassociating punishment spankings from sex.
by muchinspired » Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:55 pm in WWJD? (What would (Nanny) Jo Do?)

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by artlover
Tue Jan 01, 2013 4:13 pm
Non-kinky assertions of dominance in public?
by ninas » Thu Aug 30, 2012 9:34 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by JigsawAnalogy
Mon Oct 01, 2012 11:15 am
CDD vs TTWD
1, 2 by PrttyinPnk » Tue Jun 14, 2011 1:01 pm in How can you call yourself a...

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by wicked nurse
Wed Jan 23, 2013 11:08 pm
New partner
by Red Rump » Sat Feb 08, 2014 6:39 am in What it is that we do

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by Eayore
Sat Mar 22, 2014 8:09 pm
Happy birthday to Jigsaw!
by splorange » Tue Aug 07, 2012 7:19 pm in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by JigsawAnalogy
Mon Oct 01, 2012 10:57 am
Website
by Stargirl888 » Thu May 23, 2013 10:39 am in Daily Life and Off Topic

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by LadyShriver1
Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:46 am
My "issues"
by whipped » Sat Feb 18, 2012 7:59 pm in Mental health

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by wicked nurse
Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:36 pm
Thought provoking
by wicked nurse » Thu Jan 24, 2013 10:04 pm in What we have survived

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by Eayore
Sat Feb 02, 2013 9:12 pm
Facebook...
by ~*KiKi*~ » Sat Aug 25, 2012 7:29 pm in What it is that we do

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by LadyShriver1
Mon Mar 17, 2014 12:18 pm

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