This thing we do

You can call it domestic discipline, rules, structure, or getting your needs met. This is a non-judgmental forum for adults who use some form of external discipline in their lives.

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  • What about the neighbors?
    Or housemates, or children, or any of those other people who share our space, but who are not involved in our disciplinary arrangements.
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    Last post by lana View the latest post
    Wed May 23, 2012 1:45 am
  • Mental health
    In a perfect world, discipline would cure all ills. But in the real world, not so much. How do we deal with those diagnoses that spanking just can't make go away. (You know, depression, ADD, DID/MPD. The thing a therapist would put on your medical record to convince the insurance company that they have to pay up, if you had a therapist and health insurance.)
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    Last post by wicked nurse View the latest post
    Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:44 pm
  • Physical health
    How do we balance consistency and rules with the fact that our bodies might not always comply? What do we do when physical problems make spanking a no-go? How do we explain the marks to our doctors?
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    Last post by splorange View the latest post
    Thu May 24, 2012 1:22 pm
  • What we have survived
    Some of us had perfect happy bunny rainbow ice cream childhoods. Some of us had childhoods that were reasonably okay. And some of us were abused. Much as I'd like to pretend it has nothing to do with my life now, I know that those old issues can rear their ugly heads. Not to mention coping with the judgmental tone a lot of the "healing" literature takes about S/M, let alone the disciplinary stuff.
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    Last post by Eayore View the latest post
    Sat Feb 02, 2013 9:12 pm
  • How can you call yourself a...
    feminist? Christian? Pagan? Athiest? Loving partner? Adult?...

    if you let someone discipline you?

    Well, I know that we *are* all of those things, or whatever else we define ourselves to be. But sometimes, we just need to check in with other people, and be reminded that we're not doing something bad or wrong.
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    Last post by wicked nurse View the latest post
    Wed Jan 23, 2013 11:08 pm
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