Caning question

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Re: Caning question

Postby lana » Mon Aug 01, 2011 3:59 am

[quote="PrttyinPnk"]Sometimes I would love the idea of giving him a good wack with a cane....lol.

Particularly after a difficult discipline session. :impish:

(hopefully he doesn't read this before Wednesday night)[/quote
We got a new Delrin cane that is very whippy from caniac and i got spank today (over my jeans so he could get the feel of it) because I accidentally shouted at my hoh. I got irked at him coz he kept taking things out of thje garbage can and askin g are you sure you want this or this-- one by one. I was trying to participate in a chatroom so it was irking me and I finally said WHY DO YOU THINK THEYRE IN THE GARBAGE CAN? too loud and when he came in from taking out the garbage i had to bend over and hold the arm of the couch and had a session with the new cane. Its way worse than the lexan...

I said after it was over i should get to give him just one stroke with it so he could feel how bad it was but he as usual said "No Way! Dont even think about it unless you want some more.!"

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Re: Caning question

Postby Eayore » Mon Aug 01, 2011 6:30 pm

I think he should be willing to try it, you know - just so he realises what it feels like. Not sure if 1 swish would be enough, though.
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Re: Caning question

Postby lana » Tue Aug 02, 2011 1:21 am

I agree. With the cane for me its the buildup of the intensity as one stroke follows the next,so i cant stay still for it without a bit of time between strokes.
So really he needs to experience 3 in a row :rubhands:


But its never going to happen... :sigh:

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Re: Caning question

Postby pinecone » Tue Aug 02, 2011 11:28 am

OMGoodness, can I just say how much I love the retro vibe of that curly blonde photo... and the expression on the Chevy Chase looking guy's face! So good.... you have the best pictures!

I can't add anything to the caning conversation because I haven't been caned in years and years, but it sure looks and sounds scary.
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Re: Caning question

Postby Fred Williamson » Mon Sep 05, 2011 9:59 am

FootballJunkie wrote:Ok...dumb question here, but what is the proper technique to caning?


A quick summary may be helpful:

1. The arm/wrist action. Don't try the dramatic stuff of raising your arm high in the air. It's very difficult to be accurate that way, and accuracy in a caning is very important. Instead, imagine that you are holding a thick book (like a phone directory) under your caning arm - this will limit your arm movement and force you to use your wrist more. Its all in the flick of the wrist, not in a huge arm-swing.

2. The aim. The part of the bottom to aim for is the lower part of the cheeks, just above the crease where the buttocks join the thighs. And don't go any higher than the top of the bum cleavage. Above all, DON'T allow the cane to wrap around onto the hip, so make sure that the tip of the cane is in line with the centre of the cheek that is furthest away from you. Try to achieve parallel strokes throughout the "caning zone" I have described. It helps to place the cane lightly on the bottom before delivering each stroke.

3. How hard to cane? That's up to you and your partner of course, but be aware that a strict caning is ultimately more satisfying for both partners than too light a one. It helps the "bottom" to absorb a harder caning if the "top" delivers the strokes slowly, say not faster than one stroke every 5 seconds or even 10 seconds. If it's any help, my wife and I find that a large number of medium strokes brings better tension-relief than a smaller number of really hard ones (she normally gives me 24, all on the bare).
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Re: Caning question

Postby artlover » Wed Sep 07, 2011 12:16 am

pinecone wrote:OMGoodness, can I just say how much I love the retro vibe of that curly blonde photo...


She certainly looks lovely from that angle!
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