Oh well thank you, Lana. You're a real sweetie and I sure appreciate your cheerful friendliness.
I'll likely stick around but I'm not sure if you guys will hear from me a lot over the next couple of weeks. I'll try my best to pop around and say hi though.
Yeah, my husband is a total disciplinarian...all the way. Inconsistency is something he's never even heard of!
If I get a punishment spanking, then yes it's ALWAYS to the point of tears. To be honest, the last thing I'm in the mood for after a session over his knee, is sex. I'm in total pain and bawling my eyes out. I explained in another thread that he doesn't want me to look back on punishment as being fun and pleasant. He only means to teach me a lesson and to know who's boss...and that's it. I explained things better, here...viewtopic.php?f=12&t=1625
Nope Lana, I can't ask for a vacation from DD. Wish I could...especially when I'm over his knee!
He does not see this as a game and is very dominant and strict by nature. He needs it every bit as much as I do. He's explained to me that consistency is VERY important to him and that I need to always know that I can count on his love and protection. He doesn't want me to see this as some kind of game that we can play when we want...and I agree with him 100%.
We leave tomorrow night. He's at his parents until late. Normally I would have gone with him but I still had packing to do. I'm just sooooooooooooooo glad that I don't have to go to bed at 7 tonight. I didn't actually get to sleep last night until 11!!! That's over 4 hours of "reflecting".