I've never been a member of a site like this so I'm not sure what all the rules are just yet. My way is to be blunt and outspoken. I've been reading a whole lot of information lately, on many different sites, and so when I commented about some wives getting off easy...I wasn't necessarily talking about this site and I most certainly was not referring to anyone specific. We don't know each other yet, so how could any of it be personal?
I was not referring to you, JA or JB. The truth is I know little about your personal relationship and I would NEVER put someone down for having a physical disability and saying they are getting off easy! Just the thought of that makes me sick.
I believe that it's an individual thing, and we shouldn't approach it like we all have to be the same. You were right to pick up on my light-hearted, silly teasing tone...because that's honestly all I meant to portray. I do not seriously think badly or judge others for their way of doing things. From my point of view though, so many wives who complain, actually have it easy. Or at least easier than me!
I will say that my husband can be judgemental and maybe sometimes he rubs off on me. I often write about his opinions and what he thinks. I do not necessarily always agree with his takes either but I still relay them to you guys.
I'm sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings though. I really didn't mean to and none of it was personal. I'll try to be careful about how I word things.
Nope, I don't get to use my laptop or my iPad when I go to bed at 7pm. No T.V. or books either. Just me and the bed. He wants me to be thinking about what I did wrong, with no distractions. On days I get punished I have to go to bed at 7 pm...that's the rule. It's not a special punishment, just a regular one.
One thing I'd like to say is that I dislike confrontational posts in front of a whole audience and think it's more appropriate to send someone a private message if there's a serious problem...otherwise it just promotes bullying and ganging up, where mean-spirited people can grandstand and openly trash others. Not a good thing.
Lastly, I think I'm going to speak with my husband again and ask if I can have cornertime instead of early bedtime. Somehow though, I don't think he's gonna go for it!