It's interesting how language works in ttwd. Liz definitely thinks I misbehave, and so do I, but I never think of her that way. When she does something she shouldn't, or makes a bad choice, or overreacts, I never think of that as misbehaving. Maybe that's because "misbehave" is such a childish
word, and associates with me - and probably most bottoms - more than it would associate with her as a top?
When she does "misbehave", I think we deal with it in many of the same ways non-ttwd couples would. We'll talk, sometimes argue, and agree to disagree - with her always having a final say if it comes to that, of course. I've even told her I was hurt by something she did or disappointed in her without ending up with a sore bottom.
As long as I'm respectful she's even okay with me being mad at her, as long as being mad isn't related to a punishment.
But I'd never think she should be spanked for anything she did. We both think that consequence is reserved for me.