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 Post subject: omission of information
PostPosted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 3:35 pm 
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It seems I forgot to tell T I received a speeding ticket on the motorcycle. She found out today when my attorney friend called to double check to see if I had paid the fine to keep points off my license. Attorney friend called the wrong cell phone and now I am in some trouble. I was in a meeting and got a message on my phone in which T called me by my full name, and, among other things, told me to enjoy sitting while I can, told me to confess on this forum, and wait for her to get home. In my defense, I was never told I had to tell her about every little traffic infraction and if stupid friend had not mentioned it was a ticket from bike, I might not even be in trouble. I will be getting a spanking (duh) and T has stated that I will have to put my bike in storage for a couple of months.


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
PostPosted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 5:33 pm 
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If you get away with it, fine... bit if you don't, the consequences are often multiplied...

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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
PostPosted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 7:00 pm 
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Well, the lecture part was rough, T went on about trust and how my behavior was reckless and how it made her feel. I was in tears long before the spanking. At one point, while accross her lap, I started a sentence with "but I did not mean" and that was as far as I got. T really laid into me about that phrase. She used the crop, the bath brush and lexan paddle. I am very sore and feel quite sorry for myself.


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
PostPosted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 7:11 pm 
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I am sorry to hear that, GF, especially about putting the bike into storage. Has this part been confirmed, or did T relent after the harsh spanking and lecture she gave you?


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
PostPosted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 8:14 pm 
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I have not relented. The bike will be put away for awhile. She was going 80 in a 55 mph zone.


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
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Ah, I see. This wasn't mentioned in GF's post.


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
PostPosted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 9:06 pm 
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My hand had another discussion with G's bottom over the omission of the specifics of the ticket.


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Ironic, given the title of the topic. :nanana:

That really does strike me as way too fast though... the slightest bump or distraction, and the whole apparatus could spin out of control.

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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
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T did rather emphasize that when I am instructed to post, I am not to leave out the parts that embarrass me and make it appear as though she is over reacting.


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
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Yikes GF!! I remember from past posts (as I'm sure do you) that T is not gonna let ANYTHING slide when it comes to you being reckless on the bike!! I'm sorry you have to put it up for a couple months and that DOES sound like a pretty good spanking you got (good as in hard and stern, not as in pleasurable!). I'm glad, though, on a couple levels--I DO love hearing about Topper take charge and spank you even when you haven't (verbally) asked for it, and damn, woman, 80 in a 55...I wouldn't sit for a while either!! I daresay you've learned your lesson on that; at least, I hope so for your butt's sake!

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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
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T did rather emphasize that when I am instructed to post, I am not to leave out the parts that embarrass me and make it appear as though she is over reacting.

... I wonder why!

Love the way you two are together.

Omission of information does deserve a spanking, in my opinion - and I imagine T also took into account that you rather compounded this little offence by oh-so-innocent remarks such as "I was never told I had to tell her about every little traffic infraction"!!!

This is the sort of thing I would say myself, and quickly regret when I am asked to go and get "the whip".


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
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I take my hat off to you Topper.

Girl also has the rule of no speeding and also got into trouble recently for receiving a ticket. Rather than moaning about their sore bottoms they should be reassured that it is their safety we are concerned about. I also sympathise with the punishment reflecting not necessarily the offence but the attitude, the "but I didn't mean it" and the issue of trust, etc. ...

Unfortunately putting Girl's car in the garage is wholly impractical and so I envy you having this sanction at your disposal.

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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
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I know T has no tolerance for slight bike infractions. That is why I forgot to tell her. I was trying to save her from distress. And I know it sounds like I was going very fast, but it really did not feel unsafe. The worse part, at least for today (because yesterday the worst part was the getting caught, dressing down and spankings) is that T is going to ride the bike over to the shop and I have follow in the car. T does not really like riding the motorcycle and sticks mostly to the scooter, and I hate watching her because she rides it like a grandmother. T was unmoved by my asking (begging really) to at least get to ride it to the shop. Also I now have to miss the ride to deliver toys to a family a group of us riders got toys and stuff for and I will miss the New Year's day ride and other rides I had scheduled. And I am not allowed to borrow anyone else's bike or ride her scooter. I am in a foul mood.


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 Post subject: Re: omission of information
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Well .... it is like I tell Girl, "if you do not like the punishments then do not break the rules".

Comply, then complain.

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I know T has no tolerance for slight bike infractions. That is why I forgot to tell her. I was trying to save her from distress. And I know it sounds like I was going very fast, but it really did not feel unsafe. The worse part, at least for today (because yesterday the worst part was the getting caught, dressing down and spankings) is that T is going to ride the bike over to the shop and I have follow in the car. T does not really like riding the motorcycle and sticks mostly to the scooter, and I hate watching her because she rides it like a grandmother. T was unmoved by my asking (begging really) to at least get to ride it to the shop. Also I now have to miss the ride to deliver toys to a family a group of us riders got toys and stuff for and I will miss the New Year's day ride and other rides I had scheduled. And I am not allowed to borrow anyone else's bike or ride her scooter. I am in a foul mood.


Aw GEEZ, what a rough time to lose bike privileges!! Will you have to explain your absences at the riding events? Don't blame you for being in a foul mood, but it DOES sound like T is getting the point across. Damn it is miserable when they're being so effective though!

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