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This thing we do • View topic - This just isn't working.

This just isn't working.

SpankoNanny, WE NEED YOUR HELP!

Here's a section for those questions about discipline. In this case, we're *all* able to stand in for SpankoNanny, and we are all free to ask questions. Got a problem in your household? Check in to see what our good friend (but our firm, strict, caring friend) SpankoNanny has to say.

Re: This just isn't working.

Postby Eayore » Tue Aug 10, 2010 7:04 am

To give credit where it's due, that insight about some bottoms wanting their tops to be 'perfect' so we don't have to be perfect any more, came originally from Homeatlast. It certainly did hit home for me too though, and helped to open my eyes a little more.

What to do about it? Here I can only speak for myself. A theme of our 20+ year relationship, that we keep reminding each other about, is "perfection doesn't exist". And recently, I find I am less and less insistent that P needs to punish me in a certain way, speak to me in just the right tone, etc. etc. I take what I get and I'm grateful for it, because I have a lot to be grateful for!
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Re: This just isn't working.

Postby Eayore » Sun Aug 15, 2010 3:55 pm

TryingReallyHard, now I have read some of your other posts, I am wondering if I understood your comment, "...I just don't know what to DO about it." Besides the fact that you may not have been asking for suggestions anyway, I'm not sure what was the "it" exactly.

I'd love to hear more, if you want to say any more. Equally if you don't want to, that's fine with me.
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Re: This just isn't working.

Postby Julia » Sun Aug 22, 2010 6:29 pm

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Re: This just isn't working.

Postby Naughty butt Nice » Mon Aug 23, 2010 12:07 pm

Sounds like an interesting solution congrats.
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Re: This just isn't working.

Postby TryingReallyHard » Tue Aug 24, 2010 1:24 am

~TRH
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The hard lessons make the difference, and the difference makes it worth it." -Fireflight
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