So boyfriend made a mistake

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So boyfriend made a mistake

Postby lane3010 » Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:18 pm

Boyfriend made a mistake.... he opened an email from a dating site he had not cancelled. NOT GOOD and I found out about it without him telling me first. He is our HOH 5 days a week due to my needing the discipline but he needs to be corrected to and we have an understanding and it does so far work for us. Two days a week I am in charge in purely a sexual way.... but now with this I feel and he feels he should be punished by me so we can move forward and continue to grow together. It feels a little unorthodoxed and we are trying to figure out what works for us.
If your SO did this what punishment would you give?
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Re: So boyfriend made a mistake

Postby altbob » Sun Dec 25, 2011 3:15 am

Essay, pre spank, corner time to think about it, and good spanking to drive it home / cleanse things. Unless you want to be strict and mean. Of course, stuff like that is a button for me, so I may not be objective.
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Re: So boyfriend made a mistake

Postby lane3010 » Sun Dec 25, 2011 4:38 am

have him write about why it was wrong? I like that idea. I may do that. Sounds like a good plan I can't let this slide and he does not expect me to..
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Re: So boyfriend made a mistake

Postby Eayore » Tue Dec 27, 2011 2:30 am

Yes, I think it sounds like a great plan.

I presume the dating site has now been cancelled?!
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Re: So boyfriend made a mistake

Postby lane3010 » Tue Dec 27, 2011 10:27 am

Yes dating site was cancelled. The thing we can't figure out is yesterday we both deserved a spanking. So I got mine and I must say it was one of the first real one- actually 3 spankings- 3 shorter series- he is learning and man he got me good. I had no idea it would have left marks but there is bruising and busted blood vessels. One of the things I did wrong was i tightened up so I think that made it worse???
So he got away with no spanking.
I think I will skip the spanking for him and just have him write.
He also said this morning he thinks he turned the corner and gets it now.
My poor bottom.
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Re: So boyfriend made a mistake

Postby Eayore » Tue Dec 27, 2011 4:38 pm

It's nice when a top 'gets it'... well in a bitter-sweet sort of way!!
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Re: So boyfriend made a mistake

Postby lane3010 » Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:07 am

I told him he could pick his punishment- we switch... but rarely- i am normally bottom in our daily life. but this calls for some form of punishment he thinks for himself... so of course I told him to pick the number- he picks 7 with the belt. Now I get maintenance spankings that are way longer then that!!!
I guess he is in charge.lol.
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