hello everybody. I am from Italy. DD is not very well known in my country, and generally misconceived. it's considered a kinky old fashioned perversion, and it really does not help me. We have been together for years and recently he proposed me to introduce DD in our lifestyle.
I think it could be very positive under many points of views (then I'll tell you why)
I surfed the net but I still haven't found all the answers I need...
I am sure you can help me!first of all:
DD would be based on my full submission to his authority. Submission is again a bad word in my environment. I am an educated person with a professional work and it seems quite unconceivable that I can do such a thing. it conveys a lot of bad perceptions. how would our relationship change if I submit to him? will he lose respect for me, or feel that I am less valuable? will I be a stepback in his perception? (I'd really appreciate also a male perspective)
And how can I be really submissive
, as I've neve had to? do you have any techniques, tricks, advices, exercises?
Is there any EU book -as far as you know - non-fictional, handbook-like that can help me? A part of your valuable advices
He told me that in case I should agree that he can correct me, I will have to accept his decisions on punisments. Again I've seen a lot of photos of implements that seem horrible to me... what would it happen if he chooses one of them for me, if I had him my unconditional consent to spank me?
please, help me!