This question is mainly for the doms/tops/hoh

[lana]

If your SO approached you and said she 's (or he) had done something wrong and wanted to have a spanking and a good long cry tears and all, what would be the surest way for you to achieve this?
Length of spanking , scolding, implement ?

Lana

[artlover]

My wife has a low pain threshold and has not been spanked for months. A good firm hand spanking for a few minutes would probably do the trick, though I don't think the tears would come unless she really wanted them to (as in the case of your wonderful hypothetical).
I do think, though, that the belt is the quintessential implement of a husband, and were I to find myself in faced with such a wonderful request, I would go with the belt.

My wife reacts poorly to lectures under most circumstances. When she has earned a spanking, I think she views that as quite enough, and views lectures as being in the nature of "piling on." However, for her to come to me in the manner of your hypothetical, something would have to be bothering her a lot, and perhaps some lecturing on the topic would work well.