I do not live with my partner. We do live close and I work very close to his house. Since we don't live together, I am required to tell him if I break our one rule.
I am wondering when other people, whether you live together or not, do the punishment. Is it a more or less immediate thing, or do you have a specific time? Which works best?
We are very new and trying to work this out, and have struggled with consistency. We've been trying to do it on weekends because that is when there is more time, but I wonder if I should be required to go to his house during the week. Even if I do, there will be times that it just can't be done because of our schedules, but I suppose we could just choose the next available time. Ideas? Successes? Advice?