Butt Plugs and Ball Gags

[Punishme]

My Wife asked me to get her a Butt Plug for punishments because she thinks that kind of thing will do her good??? She thinks that it will inflict just enough discomfort if she has to wear it for a day?

Does anyone have any Butt Plug Related incidents/punishments

Also, she says that her Ball Gag is not severe enough-she wants punishments to be harsh enough to remind her not to do it again.

Any Ideas for making the punishments worse/harder?

Thanks

[Julia]

You could look up "figging". It involves using a butt plug made of ginger root and it gives a very ..... erm..... warming experience. Actually, if anyone wants to practice having hot flashes in preparation for the menopause, a ginger root butt plug will give you the idea very nicely.

Adding severity to the ball gag? Could you paint it with something? Maybe that liquid that is supposed to stop you biting your fingernails? I'll have to think about this one.

[Punishme]

Thanks Julia!

Would you reply to some of my other posts?

I havent had much luck!

Thanks Again

[subbieforHer]

I can say from experience that butt plugs are an excellent tool for disciplinary and punishment purposes; not to mention that they're always a wonderful addition to any submissive/bottom's wardrobe! My Mistress makes me wear a locking butt plug harness with a medium-sized plug inserted for about 8-10 hours every day (aside from the occasional day's break). Having my butt plugged on a regular basis is a discreet reminder of my status as Mistress' property and acts like an invisible collar of sorts... it's much more challenging to act out/misbehave when your ass has been stuffed and made off-limits... hmmm!
Particularly effective punishments involving butt plugs that I have endured include:
-Enforced butt plug wearing (consensually, of course) for extended periods of time. (e.g. a standard over-night or 24-hour wearing, and potentially lengthier episodes depending upon how strongly my behavior is in need of correction... my personal longest time Mistress has kept me continuously plugged was 10 days).
-Mistress reserves the right to order me to insert a plug directly in Her presence, as well as bending me over and sliding it in place for me. Sometimes when Mistress deems that I need further punishment, She likes to lock on my butt plug harness and restrict my bathroom usage to short, permitted (and possibly supervised) comfort breaks only.
-Replacing the medium-sized butt plug I usually wear with a large punishment plug whenever, and for however long, Mistress desires.
-Sleeping with a plug inserted until my harness is unlocked the following morning.
-... I have several more examples I could continue on with but to help keep this post shorter, I would be happy to share more punishments

"Also, she says that her Ball Gag is not severe enough-she wants punishments to be harsh enough to remind her not to do it again."
-Whenever I've made the mistake of disrespecting my Mistress verbally, She straps a ballgag tightly in place and locks it on for an extended period that depends upon how severely I misspoke... for failing to address Her by the proper title might be a 15-minute excursion while knowingly disrespecting Her (as all boyfriends and husbands have done at some point or another lol) did result in having to wear a very restrictive trainer-type ballgag head harness for several hours.
-On a lighter side of things, I am gagged while doing chores around our home with the knowledge that Mistress will keep it on me until all the tasks are completed to Her satisfaction.
-Once while we were traveling on vacation and I ended up getting a little snippy in my tone with Her... as a result, Mistress locked my ballgag on and covered it up with a large scarf before bringing me in public for a lovely (and humiliating!) autumn walk.

"Any Ideas for making the punishments worse/harder?"
-I would like to mention that being filled with an enema prior to having a butt plug inserted is a nice little twist of humiliation...
-Chilling a butt plug and/or a ball gag in the freezer before having it used on you is quite the extra touch.
-... hmmm so many more ideas are flooding my mind ;D

I apologize for the long post and would like to thank anyone who takes the time to read this.
Peace,
subbieforHer

[Huney]

I love being punished with butt plugs! HOH makes me wear them to do tasks that I forgot to/decided not to do. Sometimes its folding the laundry (not so bad), and sometimes its mowing the lawn (which sucks) and all types of other things like that. It works well because its not really painful, its more just a pain in the ass (haha), its annoying to do stuff when you have a butt plug in. Makes me think next time I'll just do my chores the first time.

[lana]

I never had butt pluggs or ball gags. (Any kind of gag is on my hard limits list cause i get panicky from it) I had to wear nipple clamps once--but that was more for a play punishment.

BUT I have had Capsacian Cream applied to my red butt after a spanking and that really reminds you for a looong time.

Also I have had to do corner time in some uncomfortable positions. As far as ct he is pretty creative. Kneeling on a chair. Nose holding up a traffic ticket against the wall. One time having to hold a cane behind my knees.
Its hard for me to imagine why she would want these WORSE punishments --i hate them-- but different strokes for different folks

lana

[artlover]

I would think women would vary widely in how they responded to having a butt plug in during a spanking. We used to use a butt plug when having intercourse "doggie style." That used to really increase the intensity of what my wife was feeling. It was a turn on for me too, gently dominant (I informed her when we would be using it, and put it in.) I think for some women it would be pleasurable, others it would introduce an extra touch of submissiveness, a touch of humiliation. Some woman would experience that as both pleasurable and still punishment. I expect that other women would find it irritating and more punitive.

The gag thing really turns me off. Of course, I would use one on my wife if she wanted to (which I doubt she ever would) but otherwise, ugh! To each his own, of course. But I just don't get them. We used to do a little light bondage, back before the second child. Whenever I have my wife in restraints, I want to kiss her. A lot. (Or do, uh, other things with her mouth ). I don't want something in the way. And they don't look attractive to me. Whenever I see photos of models in a gag, I always think it distorts their pretty faces. I feel the same way about bondage pics that have the models in overly contorted positions. It takes away from how lovely their bodies look.

I guess I am pretty lightweight as a dom, lol.

Ooops: that blushing smiley was supposed to go somewhere else. . . How do I delete it?

[altbob]

If you look at the text, it's all text tags. There should be a radio button by Post Icon.

[muchinspired]

As a fan of butt plugs, having my huge one in as a punishment usually becomes unbearable after the first hour because I'm so turned on-- naturally, touching myself is off limits-- and then it just becomes tiring and really annoying.