http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relatio ... paging=off
This LONG but very fascinating article touches on many subjects that seem relevant to this section. While not exactly like those in the example, I definitely can recognize some of my own Exiles, Managers, and Firefighters and how they're damaged my relationships with others through lack of Self Knowledge.
When some of you have a moment I would love to know what you think! Despite the title "Why some people hate sex Fascinating psychology behind sexual revulsion" the article touches on many things that every one can relate to including mismatched libidos and those criticizing voices that live somewhere in all our psyches.