This thing we do

If i told you what ruined my life when i was 14?

Even though life was worse before that point.. when i was 14 it was my own choice as a way of getting through

I can't speak for anyone else but work very hard at not judging others. Especially for stuff they did when they were 14!

I would say though that as safe as this forum feels you may want to use the private post section for something very personal if that would make you feel a little safer?

And to keep yourself really safe, only share what you can cope with and what you feel comfortable with.

Listening if and when you want to share

Hey thanx. maybe i will continue in the private section. its not like i committed a crime against anyone But it was more to do with the type of family i have.

I definitely would not judge you. That's not to say you should feel obliged to share anything, but if you want to, please count on me not to judge.

Thank you. i noticed that you replied to me in dd bottoms forum about childhood ghosts. i will appreciate opening up and think i will take homeatlasts advice and do so in the private section.

I would also like to offer my support & reassurance of a non-judgemental response.

Thank you.

i replied in the other thread, but i'll add my voice to the others in saying that i wouldn't judge people for anything they did to cope (so long as they weren't coping by intentionally hurting someone else). and when you're 14, honestly, you don't have a fully developed brain, so you're even less responsible for the choices you make.

the point is, if as an adult you're willing to take responsibility for your life from that point forward, and change the harmful behaviors you used in the past.

thanx i'll go and read your post.