As I have been perusing some other sites, and even occasionally on this one, I sometimes run into phrases that are either alarming or set off my "icky" feelings...and yet, somehow, I always find them erotic. I don't like them for my real relationship, but they turn on my fantasy role-play button all at the same time. I'm sure those are different for everyone; what bothers me might be a "favorite" phrase of someone else, but I'm curious...what tweaks you or pushes a button?
for me, here are some:
"There's no set number of swats. Spank her till she's learned her lesson."
"You WILL obey me."
"You're getting out of hand, do I need to remind you of your place?"